Keep the Faith. I have a 3 yr old boy and a 4 yr old boy. All my life I have wanted a baby girl. At birth I was told she was a girl. 1/2 hour later they said she had "ambiguious genitalia" pick a sex and raise "it" that way. I did not accept this answer and we were transferred to another hospital. They gave me a hard time leaving since I wouldn't fill out the birth certificate. I can empathise with you. I hope all is going well now. I do thank God every day that my boys didn't have this and have it go undiagnosed.