My husband and I are trying for our second and I (we) will be doing the dex treatment. After going through with a total of 15 hrs. of surgery and 3 cystoscopies I honestly don't think we could go through with having go around. Our daughter did excellent afterward but the toll it took on us was too much for anybody. If the treatment means any less surgery for our baby I'm willing to gain weight, be crabby,tired,etc.....We are awaiting results from our genetic study as we speak. Good luck and God bless. Feel free to emailback for anything.