Here's my two cents.I am an adult w/cah .The temper thing is natural.I dont know to tell you parents how to controll this,but I will give some personal insight. I got kicked out of daycare also.When I use to lose my temper it was so fast and intense that you dont know what you are doing.It took me a long time to understand this.Not getting a toy to work right,getting pushed or some days you feel plain mean. DEstroying something releases that rage,it felt like being the Tazamian Devil.Cah kids are active and physical .They need an extra outlet.My parents bought me a punching bag that was a big hit.LOL. I hope this helped. Feel free to write.I hope you find ways to help your kids.Yes I still have temper problems.