It is a very sensitive subject, we all agree. I also agree that it needs to be addressed however, I think you need to take an approach that doesn't suggest CAH. They may feel that you are over doing it by assuming that "all children" have what your child does. Believe me I am not suggesting that this is what you are doing, just the opposite. But from their point of view they may. As you pointed out there are many causes for the pubic hair and I believe it should be addressed that way. Opening up about the CAH for your child will hopefully give them insight to how understanding you can be for them if there is a problem. I just know that my caregiver had a similar situation with other problems for one of the little boys in her care. Infact most of us other parents commented many times that we thought something was wrong. She finally approached the mother, who was a former co-worker and is a friend about her concerns. The parent was very upset and felt that our caregiver was tyring to pass along the "issues that her daughter" was having. I will keep in you my prayers and hope that you are successful in you attempts. Good Luck!