First & foremost...CONGRATULATIONS on the birth of your daughter! I hope "Mommy" is doing well. My thoughts & feelings are the same as the rest of those who replied to your first post. I have a 14 year old son who does EVERYTHING that any other boy does....plays sports, rides bike, swims, rides dirt bike & 4-wheeler, you name it he does it! You will probably have to go through some surgeries that we didn't have to do since we had a boy. Have faith, all will come out fine. And, YES, it does get easier with time. I cried when my son was 6.5 weeks old & loosing weight so fast that they addmitted him to the hospital right from one of his checkups....I went into shock too, I cried for two days. Later I found out he almost died...I still get choked up when I think how close I came to loosing him. God bless you all. you'll be fine.