Dear Michael Most importantly, CONGRATULATIONS on the new addition to your family! I don't know how much I could help you but I had to write because, you remind me of what a wreck I was a month ago when we discovered my daughter has CAH. The rule (for me, at least) is... GET INFORMED! The more you know, the less horrible you'll feel and the less sorry you feel for her. You're lucky Abby has been diagnosed so early. My baby is 19 month old and I can't help but be thankful that God has spared her thru all the "near misses" in the past. With proper care, Abby will grow up to live up to all your incredible dreams, probably even more! Enjoy parenthood ! maheran