I DON"T know what has happen to some people, sounds like they didn't have the right doctors. Parents, even if this is a cosmetic surgery and your child decision. How can you not think this is not going to effect thier self image. IF you child had any other deformaties that warranted cosmetic surgery I believe you would consider the same options. I know every case is different, some more complicated than others but my experience has been wonderful. I am a healthy 43 year old woman with a beautiful 23 yr old daughter and a wonderful marriage of 24years. my sex life is great, no complaints. Parents be realitic about what your children have. They need to have every opportunity to grow up with a good self image.