I just wanted to tell you that I am very sorry that you lost your baby boy. I can't even imagine the pain. Also, you and your husband are wonderful parents--working so hard to help your daughter. She is very blessed to have you. You will learn so much from this message board. My advice is: Check this message board twice a week if you can. Read everything you can find about CAH. Don't listen to those people who tell you to give up. I, too am willing to help you in any way I can. I could mail you information or correspond via email even just to provide support. Please keep us updated on your daughter's condition. You are doing a great job. E-mail anytime Andrea (Andy)Heinen North Carolina USA