I know what you mean.. i'm still getting used to the idea. My 21 month old baby girl was diagnosed (non salt wasting) 3 months ago and only those who matter know about her condition. Although she doesn't wear a media alert bracelet yet, we still have to give her the meds 3x daily. This poses questions from onlookers. I just like to share my experience ... I bumped into a CAH parent at the hospital pharmacy and saw she was holding bottles of meds which said "Cortisol" & "Flordocortisone" (mispelled??). I was quite excited at the possibility of meeting another CAH parent in real life. I immediately asked about her child ... we got to talking and she tactlessly asked me if my baby girl looked like a boy and if i wanted to bring her up as a girl or a boy!!! Sad, that these questions could come from a CAH parent, what more from other people!!!