Stephanie; Try looking at http://www.rch.unimelb.edu.au/CAH/ and http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Plains/8486/cah.html. They say it better than I could. CAH isn't that bad. We have a girl with, and it's a bit more stress in our lives than a normal child, but not much!! (sometimes our non-CAH son gives us more stress!!)