I was born with CAH, my mother and family decided for me to have the surgery when I was about a month old. I wish they didn't. I grew up looking like a little boy rather than a girl. I have excessive facial and body hair. At times I wish I was left alone and been given the chance to make my own decision on how I would look. I know that this may not be something you want to hear but I know from experience. I hope all goes well and your child leads a healthy and happy life. Ray aka Rayana ( girl name )