Sounds like you may have nonclassical CAH you need to find a good doctor who can test you by giving you a ACTH test. I have had many of the problems you speak of and they are not in your head. Go to the side and scroll down to the late onset board and go read Wendy's web sight it is very helpful. God Bless and you are not alone. we live very nice lives and try to deal with our problems the best we can.