Thanks for all the info you guys are hilarious, I will try to get my friend (Michelle) to get online on my computer to communicate with you. Up until she and I started Online research she only knew of one other person affected with this disease, condition, affliction, disorder . . . however it is best termed. She's a little leery about chat rooms since her father (adoptive) left her mother after 38 years of marriage for a younger woman he met on the internet two years ago so this bulletin board format is ideal. I think she could gain a lot of support from communicating with you. Thanks again, I've also been encouraging her to try for another child but she's not convinced. She provides child care for me and if I had a sister I would want her to be just like Michelle. Sorry, didn't mean to ramble, Thanks again and we'll check back in.