Hi Laura, Thanks for your message. I'm very sorry if I have offended you. In no way would I ever suggest that a CAH girl is in any way "less" than any other child - all children are precious to me. All I was trying to say was that for me (personally), I would not be prepared to risk another pregnancy if I was not willing to do what I could do to prevent problems for an affected girl by taking dex. I feel that I am fortunate in knowing that we have this problem and can do something proactive about it. However, we all have to make our own decisions and live with them. You are right - there is no guarantee that I will be able to take dex. for the whole pregnancy if we are in fact carrying a girl who is affected I am totally willing to live with the consequences of that - it's impossible to predict the future. However, if that were the case, I likely would opt to not have any more kids of my own. But again, that's my personal perspective and I don't expect everyone to share it. I wish you and your family the best as well - it sounds like your daughter is doing great and that is by far the most important thing. You are right that dealing with CAH is a difficult burden for us all and the best we can do is to support each other while recognizing our differences. Take care, Andrea