Sorry I think you are being harsh on Ashley - not all of us find this condition easy to deal with! We are all different and each child is affected differently. Yes there are worse things than CAH I agree - but it is a worry to live with. There are millions of children who are normal. I think of the future and worry - there are a lot of things CAH suffers cannot do with a life threatening - condition - depending of course how badly one suffers from it! Some suffer terrible headaches - some weight problems - some generally feel unwell! So to some - yes this is horrible to live with - and to some who will always have a positive attitude to life will cope well! We are all different and we do need some negative input sometimes - not everything is rosey in life!