CAT, You have just summed this up PERFECTLY. I hope that everyone reads it. Everyone has got to understand that EVERY child is different. Their level of CAH is from severe to mild cases. From one teen that has no problems to one that hates her life. From one that says CAH is no big thing, to- are you kidding me!? You are so right, we will never know until our child grows up to know if we did right or wrong. With all aspects of their life. Your journal is such a great idea. There are so many days I have looked at my blank journal since the day my daughter was born. I was scared she might read something that would upset her. But now that you said you do, I am going to start today. Thank you. You have made a difference today.