My heart goes out to your daughter. I remember having to take showers in the jr. high too. It was the most pain staken task ever given to me at that age. For one, your body is so "new" to you. And two jr. high is an awkward age for everyone. So I can't imagine the stress for her! My daughter was mistaken at birth for a boy. I too had the surgery done at a young age. It was done for OBVIOUS pyschological reasons. I also wanted my daughter to be comfortable with her body at all ages. I hope you read CAT's message. She summed it all up pretty good.