I know I tell you this constantly. Let me tell you again. Thank you for giving us your point of view. My daughter's surgeon told us that if she needed more surgery to enlarge her vagina it would be up to her. And it would come probably at puberty when using a tampon would become a problem. And if that were not a problem perhaps when sex became an issue. (Which won't be until she is 40 years old and we are dead.) But seriously, you give reality to a thought. I see your reaction and it gives me an idea what my daughter's thoughts may be. That is priceless. I always said when she is ready for another surgery it will be up to her (of course unless it is medically necessary) Perhaps your mom is worried that you might want to run out and have sex if you have this surgery. Not saying that you would. But consider it a mom's fear. Your her baby. And maybe it is not that. But sit her down and tell her your feelings. Tell her how you told us that you just don't feel right. Mom's come around. And by the way, when is graduation day for you? Have fun at Spring break. I used to go every year. What fun. And BE CAREFUL. We need you back here. Thanks again!