To: a mom By "solve" I am sure CAT ment agree on. But then I suspect you knew that. If you are confident in your decision then you shouldn't feel threatened by dissenting view points. This board is a God-send to some, but I am so tired of people responding in such a way, just because they have a different view point. It is almost like they need validation that their decision was the "right" or "good" one to make. CAT's message was written in a calm, logical, inspiring manner. Your message was great until you felt the need to slam, by inference, CAT's. This has happened several times before on this board and I hate it.