Thankyou for your support. It's hard not to feel bad about a possible mistake.I think the NOT KNOWING for sure is sometimes even harder.I have tried to bring up issues before but they seem to be misunderstood. I don't really feel bad about the decision to make my daughter look normal. But if the surgery caused a loss of sensation then I have sentenced my daughter to a lifetime of never having certain pleasure. That is my one and only point about the surgery. "normal" female does not mean "no sensation".Can anyone see what I am trying to say? When I said you and she will have to deal with it later I am talking about a girl who always felt pretty normal only to realize that she will never enjoy that pleasure like most other people because of the surgery.When she was born the doctors said "don't worry.There is corrective surgery". I never even believed for a minute that the surgery would ruin the clitoris. I trusted that in an age of medicine where people were having actual sex change operations this would be an easier surgery. This one point is all I'm talking about. The fact that I have seen very few grown women say "yes it still works" is what scares me. I just can't get people to give me a straight answer to that.It's not a question of whether parents made the right decision. It's a question of whether the clitoral surgery really works! It's looks normal but does it still work?