I didn't mean for you guys to get upset. I am just as upset at this issue as you. I am just so curious because it is so obvious that our girls are girls. I can understand the hormonal defect that happened and it explains to me quite simply why our CAH daughters are born with ambiguous genetalia. I am just soo curious as to why these women can't see that. I am just soo curious as to what their issues are about the whole thing. My endo even agrees with me on the fact that CAH should not be included under this intersexed conditions. That it is impossible to raise a child with no gender, and leave it up to themselves to figure it out. In this day and age when 10 year olds are committing suicide for getting C's on their report card (this happened recently in the Bronx) can you imagine leaving it up to a child, a teenager, amongst all other peer pressure, to decide which gender to assume. It's all so ridiculous. Take Care All Eileen