Well, I'm LDS, so no coffee for me! I'll share a glass of apple juice instead. Just doesn't have the same cozy ring, does it? Vicky--your daughter sounds like a delightful, mature girl with a good relationship with her Father in Heaven. I wouldn't worry too much about what her periods mean. When the time is right, she'll recognize what is right for her to do. One of my favorite scriptures says, "Be still and know that I am God."(Psalm 46:10) Because I'm usually rushing around trying to GET the answer, make the answer, and yes, BE the answer-- instead of stopping, and listening for that still, small voice. Ella's got a lot on her plate right now. When the time is right, the confusion will clear and she will know what she is to do, nothing doubting. laurie