I also thought those people were angry, but the hormonal aspects of CAH and the ambiguous genetalia it causes is so simple to understand..that I just had to satisfy my own curiousity as to what issues could they possible have. My Amanda is my Amanda, I will love her if she plays with cars and trucks (which she loves) and never touches a Barbie...if she never wears a dress or whatever...she is who she is. She is unique in every way, as all children are. And I thank my lucky stars to be blessed with her in my life. Thanks for all your warm wishes. I will post when we get back from the hospital..hopefully by the weekend. Boy, am I gonna miss this board..I'm gonna have a ton of reading to do when I get back LOL EIleen