My son is 4 also and was heading toward puberty. I liked your choice of the word "sexy" as I couldn't come up with anything that seemed appropriate for a 4 year old who is interested in pretty girls all of the sudden. I am still trying to cope with the change in his behavior since his OHP levels escaped supression but we all do what we have to do. He is still the sweet little boy I gave birth to and love dearly, it is his focus that shifted a bit. I'm working on that. Oh well, we will survive. Thanks again - LKT