Alan, First, congratulations on the expected arrival of your third child!!! Second, take a deep breath and try to relax. I know it is hard to do with the limited information that you have but, as so eloquently stated by my previous board mates, you are in caring, empathetic and compassionate hands here. Thirdly, I would hate to think that you spent the remaining months of your pregnancy in agony over something that is still just a possibility. One of my close friends was pregnant and told me that after a couple of high resonance ultrasounds it was most positive that she was having a girl. They told her that they could see no genetalia "down there". Imagine her surprise when a few months later she gave birth to a very healthy baby boy complete with his package "down there". Boy did they have to scramble to change some things in the nursery! As stated previously, it is good that you have some advanced notice however, if it should turn out to be CAH. Most of us find out after a crisis situation. You will not have to experience that. Also, you will know what to expect to help make the delivery day a happy day. You won't have all the confusion to deal with. I won't lie to you and tell you that it is the easiest thing that I have ever done, but I will tell you that it is the most important, most fulfilling and most rewarding thing by far. As far as your other children go, I have been told that the siblings of special needs children tend to grow up to be more tolerant of differences in others, less judgemental and more compassionate in every way. Also, there is evidence that they tend to go into the field of medicine/health care or education/teaching. I can only tell you that my 6 year old daughter is extremely empathetic and compassionate to every one. Her kindergarden teacher told me at her conference that "Rachael is the kindest child I have ever met". She looks after her brother and they have become very close. As far as my son goes, he is the sweetest little guy. He is a non-stop talker. He loves drawing his "inventions" and telling me about them in great detail. He is only 4 years old! He will be starting kindergarten in a few months and he can't wait for what he will learn about there. Every day is an adventure with him just on a normal basis, but one that I wouldn't miss for anything in the world!!!! I hope that there will be other testing done that might offer you comfort during the remainder of your pregnancy. Please keep us posted. Good luck and God bless! LKT