Gee, I hope I did not offend anyone with my referral to having faith and religon to get through all this. I am sorry if I did. But please remember that once in a while we do run into BIG controversies from time to time on this message board. Not everyone will agree with everyone's thinking or beliefs. But that is what we are here for. To work through our emotions and thoughts. When I put a message out there I take a little from everyone's reply. It has changed my life. And I appreciate some of the negativity at times because it expands my own thinking. There are times it is hard not to lash out in a message to some, but I take a deep breath and remember why we are here, for the love of our children. Again, I am sorry myself if my preaching offended anyone. I am just trying to help.