Lucy, I'm sorry I didn't write you back sooner but things got a little crazy around here. I think it would be better if you gave me a call so that we could talk about all the questions and fears we have in person. My phone number is 203-264-6898. Also, please know that the actions you saw on that vile, disgusting tape was not of two gay children, but of the most irresponsible, uncaring, money hungry adults that didn't care what they were doing to their children. I can tell right off the bat that your child is very loved and will be guided throughout his life by a parent who already worries about 10 years down the road. Your child is very lucky to have you as you are very luck to have him. In case you don't remember, I am the mom whose son began to play with Barbie dolls during the time that his meds were way out of control. Please call me. Maybe we can figure this out together! I'm here for you. LKT