Lucy- We have all brought up matters about CAH...some of those..."Could it be the CAH?" kind of questions. Some were well founded, while others were ponderings. That is why this forum is here. To bounce the thought off each other. I just think ..in my opinion only.... the topic had pretty much run its course. I mean, there are certain topics out there that you can only debate so much. Go to any general forum for kids and you will find pros and cons for vaccinations, circumsicion, homeschooling, etc. Some topics, when based of philosophy, are not likely to sway opinions. And that is basically what we have here. We don't and can't know for sure. I am for the school of thought, that you are likely to find a certain percentage of people with homosexual feelings (notice I am neither condoning or dismissing this)in any population. Without valid studies, we don't know for sure. I think the folks here were trying to help you find the positive or the facts as we know it and focus on that. By and large.....no parent wants their child to be different. I think they were trying to help you not dwell on what your feared might be a difference. I wish you much support and hope you will continue to ask and share here.