CAH is not the end of the world!! I remember the overwhelming sense of doom I felt when first confronted with this condition, and I can tell you that it will get better, and a lot of the time, it is not even a big deal! As far as the meds are concerned: did you crush the tablets?? My son took the crushed pills better in something stronger tasting - I mixed it with a half spoon of peanut butter or thick grape jelly, etc. Your daughter is likely not too happy with this new routine, and might be asserting herself by refusing the meds.; I imagine she will get used to it after a while. In the meantime, hang in there and God bless!