Rena, Ask how YOU can reach her. Let her know that you would be willing to make an appointment and take the trip... if that is what you still want to do. Have you ever lost a persons telephone number? Sounds like the invitation was out there and maybe you didnt respond?? What do you mean by .. she cut you off? Did you try calling her office? It doesnt make sense. You dont TRUST anybody... you become assertive and make the trip happen. Susan