Joe, Congratulations on the birth of your son!!!! What State was he born in? I am sure you already know how lucky you were to have someone diagnose him. There is a belief that we lose some of the boys to SIDS due to the fact that the girls present with obvious differences and the boys are simply "extra large" if you will.(By the way, this is not always the case). You already seem to be asking the right questions. Some of them it took me 4 years to ask. This board has been a God send for me along with the Magic Foundation. Never stop looking for information and never stop asking questions. Good luck & God Bless.