I am with you Jenn. Our daughter is 21 months old and we have been contemplating having another child. Our little girl has done really well, the worst part is the surgery. She just had her second surgery on the 17th, but everything is looking really good. I know I can take the drugs while pregnant, but they really scare me. We just got some info on it and the side effects are pretty bad for the mom. It is so nice to hear from others that say go for it!!! Leaving it in the Lords hands is the best way.