Lisa, God bless your 17 year old daughter for being who she is...I am the spouse of a 33 year old CAH tomboy, and she is my angel! If you would like to e-mail me, please feel free...kidcop2489@aol.com You may see this as a problem, but from my experience I can say its not. Your daughter is just expressing her true nature, which is a blessing from God. Sometimes it takes a lot of courage to express who you are.Mike