I will start off by saying I don't have girls, but I do have 2 boys. One with CAH the other without. If either one of my children wanted to do anything from being an astonaut to being a drag queen, I would say more power to you. I think the most important thing is for them to be happy being who they are. Also as long as they stay out of trouble. I agree with the posts above. It is sometimes hard to be who you are, specially with so much peer pressure and specially being a teenager. But obviously you have a very strong daughter. She is not afraid to be who she is. I give her credit. Love her for who she is.