Thanks to all of you for sharing your feelings about this. Rebecca will have a lot of love, but foremost, I don't want anyone's insensitivity to hurt her because of my openly vocalizing her condition. I can tell that all of you, as mothers feel the need to confide in your friends, but not to the extent that this information could get twisted in the translation and repeated. I do feel very encouraged to have been informed of this board and to learn that your daughters are doing well. As you all must know, this is very scary when you are ignorant and the knowledge of your experience will help us tremendously. Thanks to you all. Becky W.