Andrew, I certainly appreciate your interest in speaking with other men in your age group. It sounds like it has been somewhat isolating for you. If that has been or is the case my apologies. Even though most of us are here as a result of our children I hope you know you are not alone. Age is not an issue for us and we are here to support each of us regardless of how we may or have been affected by CAH. I too have a son with CAH. He is only 5 but I have so many curiosities about what life could be like for him when he is older. If you are at all interested in sharing whatever you feel comfortable with I would greatly appreciate it. Please know that everyone has differing opions on what is acceptable for them but I really believe we are a non-judgemental group. Judy