I absolutely agree with you that in general men are less likely to share their feelings and concerns. However, I am recently finding a lot of pubilicity - books, talk shows, news segements that are trying to change this perception. I do hope that you can find another CAH adult male to discuss your concerns with. It really does help to keep it all in perspective. I don't know if you would be willing to discuss some of your experiences with us mothers of CAH sons, but we would seriously appreciate any input you could give us!! Lots of luck to you and hope you will hang in there with us!