I just read your post and have a few things to note. Did you know that in the computer world when you type everything in caps THAT IS USED WHEN YOU ARE YELLING AT THEM OUT OF ANGER. If you need to highlight a word or two to stress importance, that is exceptable. I don't think we need to be yelled at. After all, we have a common goal here. Support and information. I can only speak for myself, but I have picked up some very important information while reading a posting that began as one of support and encouragement and an innocent mention of some personal experience began me thinking that that same thing was happening to my daughter. I made a connection that I may not have otherwise made. It helped my entire family. My wife says that she has gone to the chat room on a number of occassions and has been interrupted by unkown people or advertisements that say some very strange and erie things. I am an SVP of a high pressure company and put in several hours a day, but I always have time to peruse the board every couple of days. After all, as you say, CAH is a very important and life threatening thing. What can be more important than making time for reading this board if you feel you get important information from it. These are peoples life experiences and they are more realistic than any text book I have ever read. Get up an hour earlier, or go to bed a little later. We all know how to steal time here and there. If you work outside the house, chances are you may have a computer somewhere at work, log on during your lunch hour while you eat your lunch. I think these good people have already agreed to try to title there postings with a more descriptive message so, problem solved. All I know is that I have seen my wife come away from this board from time to time looking like the weight of the world was removed from her shoulders. For that, I thank you all. I sure hope we can work this out like adults who care about each other and are brought together by God and by CAH. BTW, maybe Danny can make it so the red and yellow stars can stay with the thread when you are in reading mode. This will help to identify the new ones from the old ones faster than having to look at each date. - Just a suggestion Danny. P.S. Nice new cover page.