laura,you ask me how jennifer was doing?she is doing pretty good right now.she is not as depressed as she was the first 2 weeks.which makes me terribly happy.i was so concerened for her that first while.she does well with giving the meds to baby,and she is still breastfeeding,and just being a great mom.but i know that she worries constantly about if she is doing the right thing all the time.but she is,as alex has gained up to 8lbs 140z as of 2 days ago.she does not have a computer,but i will try to figure that one out,and some how come up with one for her.she had no car,and i made a deal with her father to end up buying her one.so now at least she will have a decent car to take care of herself and alex.get alex to the doctor ect.this message board has been great for her,and for me also.i read it every day,to see what new info is there.all of you guys have been great.also her dr seems great,but with this being her first time dealing with cah,how do you know if the dr is good.what do you look for.what questions do you ask?it is all so overwhelming.