Tonia, my heart really goes out to you. My now 14 year old daughter had three severe crises - week long hospitalizations. Sleep next to her, you'll sleep better if you do. Just for tonight. Listen to her breathe, and love her very much. She'll be fine now. Before long, this will be behind you and your nerves will begin to steady. Oh how I wish I'd had the support of this board years ago! Good luck to you all.