Kare, I hate to admit it but not only would I write to her, I would then have to call her personally. I wish I could be more like Lynn, she is gifted in the understanding of people. I guess God did intend for us to love ALL people not just the one's that are nice. (I don't like that rule) But I try like heck to follow it. Ignore the ignorance. Your good intentions automatically "void" her ignorance. You just may be saving one of her children or grandchildren one day with your newborn awareness pushing. Then you will be one up on her. (hee-hee-hee) Good luck with your mission! I can't wait to hear when they do get around to it. Without you they would never even have thought of it. Good for you!