Barbara, I am so sorry for the loss of your precious little girl. Unfortunately I too know the chest crushing, breath taking pain that you are feeling. I lost my wonderful, vivacious, always smiling 19 year old son just 14 weeks ago in a car wreck. I wish I had some wonderful words of wisdom to help you, but I too am still trying to cope with the horrible ache in my heart. One thing I do know- talk about your daughter and your feelings and your memories because she was a big part of your life and will always be. And I do know that somehow we do get through this because I have thus far. My thoughts will be with you and if you need to feel free to email me privately. Marguerite