I have a 3 yr old salt wasting daughter, and am planning to encourage her to find a (some!?) pen-pals with CAH; the Magic Foudation is a great place to start! How about a support group in your area, not just for yourself, but so that your son can meet some "real, live" kids with CAH, too?! My non-CAH 5 yr old son has a pen-pal with CAH! I'm hoping that by surrounding myself and my family with people with CAH - and other conditions as well - that my daughter won't feel so alone, and that both of my children will learn to look beyond a person's physical capabilities or conditons. God's blessings to you and your family!