How blessed you are to find this out now. God is good indeed. I think we all agree that this board is one of His many blessings. My ultrasound showed a girl with a big clitoris or a boy with a small penis. I was so thrown off but never mentioned this to anyone. I wish they had seen this and said there was a problem! You are soo lucky. To have a newborn and not having a sex assigned was tramatic enough. Then to have my daughter dehydrate and be within hours of death, then recognize there was a true problem, just put me over the edge. Then to find out she had a disease. But finding out she had this disease and that it was a totally treatable disease, without the tramatic begging, I could have taken it all MUCH better if we had just known what we were facing at birth. You are truly lucky. You can do your research now instead of when your head is reeling with hormones and confusion. I tell everyone that finds this board, God is truly looking out for you if you found this board. You know we will always be here to help you out once the baby is born. My daughter is three now. A wild three. I love her to pieces. I see her in a different light. I appreciate her more than what the average mom would. That is one of the blessings of having a child with a disorder/disease. You charish them oh so much and know EVERY day is special to have them. Perhaps you will see your other children in a brighter light also. (Not saying you don't love them any less now, but the light of love will be much brighter and clearer now.)  An excellent site to go to is http://www.med.jhu.edu/pedendo/cah/printable.html.  This gives an excellent guide for families from Johns Hopkins Children's Center. As far as the surgery. That is something that only YOU can decide. I had my daughter's done at age 6 months so she will never have to endure having to have the surgery done at puberty when they already are self conscience of their body. Another thing that someone brought up was other siblings that bathe together. If I ever have anymore children I want to make sure there would not have to be a question why sissy has that and I don't ect. But that is up to the parent. The clitoris reduction was done on my daughter along with the opening of the vagina. At the time I did not know that her sensation would be jeopordized. I was assured that many nerve endings were not damaged. But you got to be sure you have a good surgeon or not have the clitoris reduced. Some girls are mildly effected. Some are effected enought to pass as looking like a penis. Like I said you know your children. No one can make the choice for you. If my daughter was not mistaken for a boy at birth (literally named a boy for a week) and I knew what I know now about the clitorial sensation being jepordized, and if I was the sole care giver at birth, perhaps I would have made the choice to not do the clitoral reduction. But I am comfortable that I made the right choice for various reasons. Something I will never regret, because I made the choice because I as the parent thought it would be best for her. Like the many million choices I will make for her until she is old enough. Best of luck with that. Know that there will be some rough times but always remember you will have us to lean on when they come. That and ALOT of prayers. Many blessings for a healthy pregnancy.