I have been through those kind of nights!  I hope tonight is a little better for you.  I heavily rely on a warm mist humididfier with the "Vicks Vapo Steam".  It's soothing and really helps the nasal passages.  Iv'e had to do the baths too as my daughter easily gets a high fever.  Did you have to inject with the vomit episode?  That's always a very hairy time!  Wer'e all entitled to those emotional oubursts during times like these!  Sounds like you did all the right things!  I hope your daughter is feeling better.  The worst usually passes in 24 hours.  I'm glad you shared here.  I know I am not alone when we go through this.  Happy Thanksgiving!  And God's Blessings!