Hi Laura,

     I was told that I was having a boy when I was 5 months pregnant.  So from that point on, I thought I was having another boy, I was happy about that, my son was getting a little brother.  When I delivered my daughter, they said "it's a boy" then my husband looked at her and said, "if it is a boy something is wrong."  For 3 days we did not know weather or not we had a boy or a girl.  Then the newborn screening came back, and my daughter tested positive for CAH.  Then the chromosome test came back and we had a little girl, for whom I love with all my heart.  Next month we are going to the urologist to talk to him about her surgery.  I am starting to have mixed feelings about it with some of these negative postings.  I think I just need some positive feed back.  I want to do what is right for my daughter.  (she is 5 months old right now)  If you have some time, could you e-mail me.  I totally agree with your letter.  Actually, your letter is making me think," yes do the surgery it is the best thing for her right now".  Please help, I really need some encourging words instead for all the negative ones.  Thank you!!!