If you had asked me years ago about my daughter's surgery I would have said everything went fine. Now my daughter is older and I find out different. Her clitoris was damaged from the surgery. Nerves were cut and now she has no sensation.That is not my opinion. That is her truth.She gets to spend the rest of her life with it and I get to spend the rest of mine with the guilt. She told me herself that she doesn't blame me but I feel it anyway. I'm her mother. I have been there. I have thought all those same thoughts. Try to use your imagination and look into the future. Do you think my daughter cares what size her clitoris is now that it doesn't work? MY intention was never to blast anyone.