I will light a candle and say a prayer in memory of all the children's lives that have touched me from this message board. I think of each one of you mom's that have endured such pain quite often. Barbara, Roberta, Wendy-Lee, Anne, to just name a few.  If I do not remember your name I surely remember your grief.  For a person with so many words, it is a time I am without. Just know your loved ones memory will be in the light of my candle Dec.12th. God's blessings.