My daughter is almost 3 so I have some time. but this is my opinion... I think the more people that are knowledgeable about it the better. If people ask me about my daughter I tell them. Depending who they are depends on how much detail I go into. I mean I dont sit there and tell them a whole story. I just explain to them in basics. I believe to ach his own! I dont want anyone to get upset at what Ive said. Its just how I feel. I think everyone has the right to do as they please and what makes them most comfortable! Amber