Judy,

I really enjoy reading your posts. You have such a good perspective. I agree with you that people are good and just inadvertantly say things. It is just so hard to hear anything less than absolutely positive about my son. I realize it is irrational, some sort of distorted big love, but man I can be protective of him.

It was very interesting to read about your sleep over dilemna. I am sure I will face that sooner than I know. I think I know just what you mean when you talk about losing control of their little world. Let us know how it goes.

-Chris